I have a Confession

Okay, so I don’t really have a confession, but I am excited about a new series of events that my company is producing.  We’ve decided to tackle the topic of relationships, which seems t…

No More Special Treatment

Today’s post comes from a very real and personal place for me.  Ladies–and I’m including myself–we have got to stop bestowing special treatment on men who have either (a) ha…

Attention Deficit: Stop. Look. Listen!

“If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay…” — Oprah Winfrey Ladies, I know you all have heard the above quote over and over…

No Apologies: Pretty Girls Rock

Okay, so this may come off as a little arrogrant.  That is not the intention at all–please consider the previous statement my official disclaimer.  Now on to the “controversial” s…

Marching On…

As I approach my upcoming 33rd birthday (I know, gasp, a woman revealing her true age in a public forum), I am starting to feel like a cow marching towards slaughter. It’s crazy, everywhere I look,…

Good Advice

I really wish I would learn how to take my own advice.  Instead of getting out there and “Surveying the Scene” as I stated I would do in an earlier post, I have been looking for love in…

Surveying the Scene

So I’ve decided that instead of complaining about the dating scene for the professional, educated and dare I say “independent” black woman, I am going to do the unthinkable……