Over and over again, one of my endless
cyber stalkers casual acquaintances will ask how am I making my relationship “work” with having us four jobs (you could argue six, but for the sake of argument we’ll keep it at four) and a good two-hour plane ride between me and the mister. I’m always confused by this line of questioning because, for me, the answer is a no brainer–we want to make it work, so it does.
People tend to complicate matters that aren’t all that complicated. When you love and care about someone, you make it work–especially when you are both adults who are comfortable in their own skins. When communication (real communication, not smoke signals), honesty, and genuine trust is at the forefront, the pieces of the relationship puzzle always come together rather effortlessly…at least they do for us.
Feels good to be with someone who understands that love isn’t complicated, it’s the situations that people allow themselves to be placed in that are. My relationship has a zero drama clause built-in, and we LOVE it that way. I’m so thankful for my current situation. I couldn’t ask for a better friend and partner. Remember y’all, it’s about the little things, the small moments. Make each day count. Live. Love. Laugh.
Until next time…