Yes. Dating in Charlotte sucks. There is no other way to sugar coat it. It just sucks beyond belief; identifying and subsequently spending time with actual “eligible and AVAILABLE” men in Charlotte proves to be, at least most of the time, a Herculean task.
The truth is I’m tired of hearing myself complain about it. I’m literally sick of the sound of my own voice when it comes to discussing the lackluster dating scene in the Queen City…so, you ask, what is my solution: “So What.” My solution is to suck it up and deal with the situation as it is until I (a) move, or (b) move.
So, ladies, if you are dealing with a similar scenario, just throw up your hands and say “So What.” It frees you in so many ways…
So what if he doesn’t like you…he’s not the one.
So what if you didn’t get that call…he wasn’t worth your time
So what if you didn’t get married by the time you were 25…you weren’t ready yet
And the “So What “ list goes on.
I mean, really, So What. There are far deeper issues in the universal aside from if I have a date on Saturday night.
There are so many things that I am grateful for, that I am taking today to say “So What” to the things I can’t change. Agree with me or not, I just don’t have the energy or inclination to complain anymore. I’d rather spend my time working on “me” so that when God sends that special fella, I’ll be ready mind, body and soul.