I’ve given up…not on love of course, never that…but I have given up on the possibility of being involved with a well adjusted, attainable and stable man. What do I mean by “well adjusted, attainable and stable man?” I’m so glad you asked that question. I mean I need the exact opposite of what I have been subjected to lately…
For example, if you are a needy man, you need not apply. I can be extremely giving and supportive, but I don’t deify…and sometimes the men that I have had the (mis) fortune of dealing with somehow got the impression that they are the best thing since sliced bread. Like, OMG, really? Brother please. That seems to be a common issue particularly with those gentlemen who work, live and breathe in the entertainment industry. To some extent, I can understand. To survive in this line of business, it is necessary to have a certain amount of drive and confidence…nonetheless, that still doesn’t give you a free pass to act like a complete and utter idiot…
And as far as what I mean by “attainable”, I am simply describing a man who is just that, attainable. Meaning mentally, spiritually and physically he is not tied to someone or something else. That could mean being married or having a girlfriend, that could mean chemically dependent or having credit worst than mine…it covers myriad concerns, lol…
I’m just venting…but in this crazy world of dating and relationships, sometimes you just have to.